Thursday, April 6, 2023

IMPORTANT! - My Gloryhole Preferences and Rules

Note-These are rules(preferences) I have for my gloryhole. I will write one for the sling later. 

I realize some guys haven't been introduced to gloryholes or understand how they work. I remember the first time I discovered a gloryhole. At that point, I had never heard of one and had no idea that they existed.  I am not going to lie, it freaked me out the first time, and I didn't even try to use it.  Instead, I ended up running out of the bathroom, a bit scared and a bit embarrassed. But the next day, I was back, and this time, I gave it a try.  I enjoyed it so much, I have been going back and using them. Most of them have disappeared. That is why I started hosting at my own private gloryhole at my place.

I've talked to a lot of guys about gloryholes. One of the big issues I have been told as to why they won't go is because of concerns that it is being recorded or photographed. I have had it photographed and video recorded before, but it has always been done by the guy visiting the gloryhole. I don't do that myself. The most important rule I have is, Absolute Privacy and Discretion! I give that to any visitors and I expect that in return. I have no problem with them taking pics/vids as long as there is never any faces shown. I also ask that they share the pics/vids with me. I will ask if they want me to keep them private or if I can post them online. 95% of the time, there are no pics/vids taken. A majority that are taken are never shown again, they wanted to keep them private. The ones that are online, are the few that they had no problems with them being online. And I am okay with that. Please know, I will never record or photograph anything myself. There are no cameras set up at my place!  Your privacy and discretion is valued and I expect the same.

Another issue I have heard about is that I don't send out my face pic. Anonymous sex is a huge turn-on for me. There is nothing more disappointing to me than a guy who has his face pic in his profile or he insists on sending his face pic to me. I realize face pics are super important for some guys. That isn't me. I couldn't care less what your face looks like. (Even though facial hair is a huge turn-on, I don't want to see your face!) The mystery, the unknown is the fantasy. And one thing I have found over the years, ones looks have absolutely nothing to do with how good they will be sexually. It also has nothing to do with how small or how big their dick is. No, I really do not want to see your face, I want to see, feel and/or taste your dick. I want to feel your tongue, fingers and/or dick use my hole. But I don't care what you look like. (I also don't share my face pic for the same reason.)

What you can expect from me:

  • I promise complete privacy and discretion!
  • I will give you the best mouth/ass that I can. 
  • I will consider all requests you have. 
  • I will have absolutely NO cameras. (Unless we agree upon something different before hand.)
  • I'll give 100% total respect to you.
  • And I will give you the best time that I can. I've been doing this for about 10 years, I can only think of 2 guys that did not get off in those 10 years. 1 of them was much older and could not get hard. The other was so nervous, he never got hard either. Both times, I had to ask them to leave because it was not a good experience for either of us.

What I expect from you:
  • Your complete privacy and discretion!
  • For you not to be drunk (it is never a good time)
  • No smoking (cigarettes or other) inside my place.
  • No cameras unless we discuss it first. I will ask that you share it with me. Also let me know if it is just for our own eyes or we can share it.
  • Please let me know how it is going and if you want to try anything in particular or different. I am very open, but I am not a mind reader.
  • Please respect me and my place. 


What do I like to do? I am VERY open.  For the most part, I am a submissive bottom that loves to suck. At times, I can be a power bottom, but normally I love to have my mouth/hole used by guys who know what they are doing. My mouth/hole are for them to use as they see fit. I get my satisfaction when they cum. I know I did a good job when they get off. 

Gloryhole



It does depend on how I am hosting as to what I will do.  If I have the gloryhole setup, I am probably looking to suck and/or get fucked. I normally don't expect any reciprocation. There are times when I enjoy getting my dick sucked, but for the most part, I am more than happy to be the one doing all the sucking. And not to pat my own back, but I have been told that I am very good at it. And I am very good at taking extra large ones down my throat. 

Sling 


I also offer an anonymous sling setup. I will be the one in the sling (not really looking for other bottoms.)  When you come over to my sling setup, you will find a clean warm area, with a bench. My ass will be hanging off the end of the sling, for the top to use as they want. 

I also can offer toys (dildos) to be used on my hole. The toys range from average in size up to very large. If needed, there will be lube available for your use. When using the toys, I prefer guys to start with one of the smaller ones (even my small toys aren't very small!)  Please make sure the hole is lubed up and then fuck away!  Before using the bigger toys, make sure my hole has been opened up before shoving the big boys in. (A little secret, once my hole has been opened up, I love having a toy and a dick inside my hole at the same time. That really turns me on!)  I always offer lube, clean towels, paper towels, wet wipes. I can also get a warm wet wash cloth. But unfortunately there is not a bathroom available. 

As for the fucking, I am the bottom! I am normally very submissive, laying back and letting the top dominate my hole. My hole is well-trained and is able to take a lot of play. I love having tongues, fingers, fists, toys and dicks inside my hole. Sometimes more than 1 at a time! I try my damnedest to make sure my hole is very clean when I play. I do my best to deep clean my hole before play. That is why I don't like to be rushed before I am available. A few times I was rushed, surprises happened and the top wasn't happy. That is why I try my best to make sure I am 100% clean before play. (But that being said, sometimes accidents can happen. The bigger the dick/toy, the more likely it is too happen. Just let me know if it does happen. I can help you clean up. 

I am not a prude, but no drugs allowed.  I do like poppers, I will even share.  But keep the alcohol and drugs at home. I am just looking for sex, not a party.  

Speaking of parties, I usually play one-on-one, but on occasion, I have entertained more than 1 guy at a time. Normally, it happens when somebody coming over brings along a friend(s).  Normally, I do not try to schedule more than 1 guy at a time. (It has happened twice, both times somebody showed up a few hours late, and I ended inviting another guy over instead. One time, they both showed up, they were both cool with it and I got them both off. The other time, when the late guy showed up, he got pissed off and left. Who's fault was that?)  All that being said, I do have a few regular guys who have said they wouldn't mind other guys joining in. We haven't tried it out yet, but let me know if you might be interested in that.  So, one-on-one is the normal, but you are welcome to bring over other guy(s). And let me know if you might be interested in joining in with one of my regulars.

Going back to the guys who showed up super late. I mean come on, show up 2 hours after you said you were on your way?  PLEASE BE ON TIME!  I know accidents happen, something comes up, you just cannot make it, but please let me know.  If you say you are on your way, be on your way!  Don't say that and show up 2 hours later. I wasn't inviting somebody from Chicago or St. Louis, I was inviting somebody in the C/U area and it doesn't take 2 hours. If you haven't shown up within 20 to 30 minutes, I will probably block you and move on. So don't be surprised when the door is locked when you arrive super late, or there is already somebody in there, taking your place. They showed up like they said they would.

Lastly, I am going to mention the most important thing:  HAVE A GREAT TIME! I try my best to provide a great time. As much as I enjoy sex, I want you to enjoy it too. If you don't enjoy it, I am not going to enjoy it either. 

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